I’m a severe asthmatic. I had my first attack at 6 hours old and spent most of my childhood in and out of hospitals and on “bursts” of prednisone, various inhalers, etc. When I was 7 years old the doctors wanted to screen me for food allergies so they put me on various extremely restricted diets on and off for months. I was starving all the time. Around this time I was also informed that they thought the asthma had to be psychosomatic. When I asked what that meant the doctor said I was “Probably faking the attacks just to get attention,”, despite the fact that mainline adrenaline shots and oxygen tents had saved my life on many occasions. Also, two people in my family have died from asthma attacks.
This “you must be making it up” attitude has haunted my life. I’ve been told I was a horrible person in a past life and I’m being punished. I’ve been told I must be repressing some horrible memory (no I remember my horrors, thank you) and I’ve been told I needed to cleanse and that the medications that saved my life were the ones actually making me sick (?!?!?!?!).
I did every cleanse. I was macrobiotic for a year and ended up in the hospital extremely anemic. I did extreme exercise, hoping to “out-condition” it or more accurately outrun it. I went to naturopaths who irradiated my blood, spiritual healers and did a 3-day vision quest in the desert drinking nothing but water for three days and not sleeping. And of course I have done EVERY diet.
I recognize that there are many causes for disease and that we don’t know all of them. But we do suffer from a cultural attitude of blaming the victim for illness. It really sucks. So I appreciate this posting very, very, very much.
Thank you!
Robbie
Actually, I disagree. No religion worth its salt promises that adherents will be shielded from pain, suffering, and death. I think that religious belief can help adherents cope with the pain, suffering and death that are bound to happen to everyone. (And belief in no religion can help people cope with inevitable pain, suffering, and death, too.)
Other than that, a very good post. I get so tired of adherents of various dietary plans claiming that if someone eats X way they’ll never get sick or they will be cured from all illness, and if they do get sick, or remain sick, they’re doing it wrong.
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