Beautiful Skin in My 40′s (finally!)

Screen Shot 2013-11-16 at 8.25.23 AMI’ve had multiple requests for a post on my skin care routine. Which is amazing to me, because my skin has sort of been the bane of my existence since I got my first pimple at age 9. People have asked me to share the products I use, and I will, but want to emphasize that the products are really secondary to the lifestyle stuff that has made the real, fundamental difference in so many areas of my life, including my skin.

A brief history: I have had acne since I was 9. In early adolescence I developed painful cystic acne on my face, chest and back. I know now it was due to hormonal issues (see my PCOS story here), but of course I didn’t know that then, nor did my parents, neither of whom had dealt with acne to that degree as teens. Throughout my teens, I attacked the acne as best I could, first with over the counter products and then with prescription products of escalating potency. It culminated with two courses of Accutane in my late teens that worked, temporarily. The acne came back.

Through my 20′s and early 30′s, I continued to try to deal with my acne with over the counter medications, prescription medications and various diets. It was very frustrating, virtually nothing worked. Except benzoyl peroxide. Benzoyl peroxide did help a little, reduced oil production, and if I was consistent with it I noticed some improvement in my acne. Over the years I tried different brands, both cheap and expensive, and realized the cheap stuff works just as well as the expensive stuff. So eventually I just stopped messing around with the expensive stuff and stuck with Benzac 5% Benzoyl Peroxide, which is what I still use when I get a minor breakout. It can discolor fabric, so I only use it at night, and stick with white sheets and pillow cases.

The real, profound change came when I started exercising, though. Exercise doesn’t get the press it deserves as an acne remedy. Remember how I said my acne was a hormonal issue? Well, I didn’t know it when I started exercising, but exercise was the key to normalizing my hormones. Regular exercise affects hormone function in many ways. It improves insulin sensitivity and leptin sensitivity (both hormones), it reduces cortisol and adrenalin (stress hormones), it can ease anxiety and depression, probably by positively affecting neurotransmitter levels. It also regulates estrogen and progesterone production. I saw these dynamics play out in my own body. As I established a habit of regular physical activity, my blood sugar issues improved (due to better insulin sensitivity), my anxiety and depression eased, my periods got more regular, most of my symptoms of PCOS resolved…and my acne cleared up. None of this was because of a diet or a medication or a skin care product, it was all due to regular, consistent physical activity. And I’m not a genetic anomaly, these hormonal effects of exercise are well supported by scientific literature. Why we don’t hear more about them is beyond me.

So exercise is the biggest piece of the puzzle. If you’re not exercising regularly, I encourage you to begin! If you’re looking for a very basic beginner program, check out my First 100 Days program, written specifically for those new to exercise or returning after a long time off. I’ll also be releasing a new beginner weight lifting routine this coming week, so stay tuned!

And now, the part I know you’ve been waiting for, the products I use. My breakouts are much more mild now than they’ve ever been, and as I said before, I use inexpensive benzoyl peroxide when (if) necessary. My real skin ‘issues’ at this point are acne scars and dark spots, sun protection, and occasional dryness as I get older. I’m getting wrinkles, but I don’t mind them, they are the evidence life leaves on my face, evidence of smiles and squinting in the sun, evidence of a life well lived. So I don’t ‘fight’ them. They make my face my own.

I try to balance price, quality and mindfulness of ingredients in the products I choose. Most of the products I use are fairly inexpensive and ‘natural’. I wash my face twice a day with Dr. Bronner’s Hemp and Tea Tree Pure-Castile Soap. I use Avalon Organics CoQ10 Toner in place of moisturizer most of the time, as my skin is oily enough that I don’t usually need a heavier cream. Once in a while, usually when the seasons change, I’ll have a little patch of dryness, so I keep Eucerin Q10 Sensitive Skin Creme around for those times. Q10 seems to have some scientific support as being beneficial and I can certainly attest that my skin responds well to products that contain it.

I do have a few splurges that I’m willing to spend a little more money on. These products are also less ‘natural’, though I’ve done some research on their ingredients and feel comfortable using them in the context that I do. In place of makeup, I use Peter Thomas Roth BB Blur Beauty Balm, it provides good sun protection and sheer coverage that evens out skin tones without looking ‘made-up’. Otherwise I do not use any foundation or cover-up, I like that his product lets my real, healthy skin be the star of the show.

My main skin issue now is scarring and dark spots from acne. I’ve found two products that really make a difference. I use Murad Pigment Lightening Gel sparingly when needed for hyperpigmentation, then switch to Peter Thomas Roth De-Spot for more general use. These two products have made a major difference in the appearance of dark spots from acne scars, and also just seem to make my skin look brighter in general. I also use Murad Essential – C Eye Cream SPF 15 because it provides some extra sun protection. So those are my splurges, and I’ve found them all effective and worth the extra cost.

I keep my makeup minimal, usually just the BB Blur I linked above, mascara and lip gloss or balm. I prefer to look natural.

I haven’t found that specific foods make my skin better or worse, but some foods certainly give me better energy, and better energy makes me more active, which DOES make my skin look better. So I prioritize eating in a way that provides me with energy (carbs!) and enough calories and protein to recover well from workouts. I eat to support an active lifestyle, because the active lifestyle is what keeps me healthy. I discuss eating to support activity in my ebook ‘Taking Up Space: A Guide to Eating to Support a Healthy Weight’.

In the end, my recommendations for healthy beautiful skin are pretty simple: stay active (and get active if you aren’t), and eat in a way that supports that activity. Protect from the sun. Use products specific to your needs, and they don’t have to be expensive to be effective. Let your own beauty shine, we are all different and there is beauty in those differences. I want to see your face! :)

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Before and Afters

I’ve shared lots of before and after pics, but they all focus on my body, which is where the most dramatic changes have taken place. Kate over at This is Not a Diet, it’s My Life suggested I do a face before and after and I thought it was a good idea. I never carried a huge amount of weight in my face, so it never occurred to me to do a comparison, as in that respect there’s been little change. But looking at that picture there, I’m seeing that there HAS been dramatic change. For the record, the pic on the left was a GOOD picture of me at the time, I remember seeing it and telling my husband to save it because I looked decent for a change.

There is a five-plus year time lapse between the two pics. I was 33 or 34 in the first pic, and the second was taken a few days ago (I’m 39 now). The most noticeable change is my skin. I wore makeup daily to camouflage my dull, problematic skin (I’ve got heavy foundation and blush on, as well as eye and lip makeup). I’ve suffered cystic, hormonal acne from about age 10. In my teens and early 20′s I tried everything, including three courses of Accutane, to clear up the problem, but nothing worked. I always had some pimples, and two weeks out of every month I would get deep, painful cysts along my jawline. By my 30′s I’d given up on finding a treatment and just found some cosmetic products that hid the issue decently and got on with my life. It was part of who I was. My dermatologist said I’d probably suffer with it through menopause.

Changing my lifestyle was NOT an instant miracle cure. Even as all my other health issues started to improve and eventually disappear, my acne remained. Like I said, I’d pretty much accepted it as part of life, and although I’d had some hope that a healthier diet would lead to improvement, I wasn’t surprised that it didn’t. Even two years into my lifestyle change I was still breaking out like clockwork before my period.

But I’m 3+ year into my lifestyle change now, and somewhere along the line, without my even noticing it, I stopped breaking out so badly. My skin hasn’t been on my radar for YEARS, simply because I’d accepted that I just have bad skin, and gotten on with life. But recently people have been complimenting my skin, more and more often, and then I took the second picture, without any makeup at all, in bright natural light, and when I saw it I was suddenly shocked and AWARE of what has happened to my skin. It’s beautiful. What? MY skin? It’s still not totally perfect, but what I have now are tiny, superficial little breakouts that go away quickly, I honestly can’t remember the last time I had a deep, painful cyst. I don’t think it was too terribly long ago, but when did the ‘switch’ flip? I can’t really tell you.

I’m sure it could be age. But I suspect it’s an indication that my body is still healing from decades of poor nutrition and inactivity. It’s a long, slow process. No magic pills, no quick fixes. Health takes time to (re)build, and the longer you cultivated illness, the longer it’s going to take your body to repair.

But make no mistake. Your body WILL repair, and you WILL heal. Be patient and give your body the tools it needs to do this important work. Real, whole, nutrient dense foods. Daily physical activity. Sleep. Patience.

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